As I move through life, I am especially attendant to having my antennae tuned to the honest answer to the question, “How am I landing with others – in their world?“
'Is my speaking (what I am saying, my intention in saying it, and who I am as I speak) leaving them empowered or disempowered?'
It's good if more people can adopt this type of mindset and be more empathetic and considerate towards others in their daily interactions.
Because nowadays, there are many people who are only concerned about themselves and their feelings, without taking into account the effect they may have on others through their words.
"If I am listening, I can tell when something gets triggered. They get uncomfortable, or look away, or start thinking, or go away, far away. I can also tell if they are resisting my communication. I can hardly speak if they are resisting my communication."
'Is my speaking (what I am saying, my intention in saying it, and who I am as I speak) leaving them empowered or disempowered?'
It's good if more people can adopt this type of mindset and be more empathetic and considerate towards others in their daily interactions.
Because nowadays, there are many people who are only concerned about themselves and their feelings, without taking into account the effect they may have on others through their words.
Exactly! Well put!!!
"If I am listening, I can tell when something gets triggered. They get uncomfortable, or look away, or start thinking, or go away, far away. I can also tell if they are resisting my communication. I can hardly speak if they are resisting my communication."
I just love this Amba. And it is so you!
Thank you, James. Your comment is so you! I appreciate your loving listening for me!